In many Kabbalistic sources it is said that the spiritual is attained only by the power of prayer. Most people in the world think they understand what prayer is, but in reality, this is far from the case.

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 Behold that before the emanations were emanated and the creatures were created, The Upper Simple Light had filled the whole existence. And there was no vacancy (The Ari, The Tree of Life).

The upper light (the Creator in His unrevealed form) filled the desire that He created out of nothing. “Something from nothing” is precisely the act of creation.

Then the Creator began to modify and transform this desire into something from which an independent created being could later be formed. He performed various actions upon it until the desire shattered into many parts, which in Kabbalah is called the shattering of the common soul (Adam).

The fragments of the common soul divided more and more until each of them became a point, the point in the heart which ignites within us and through which we feel a longing for the Creator.

At first this sensation appears unconsciously. We do not know where it came from or why it gives us no rest, but it leads us to a Kabbalistic group. This is how our spiritual path begins.

While working in the group, we begin to understand that in the nature of creation there is no other material besides egoism, as it is said: “I created the evil inclination and gave the Torah for its correction.” Egoism was intentionally created by the Creator so that one could immerse oneself in it, take it along, and then, by correcting it, ascend to the Creator.

Therefore, our task is to reveal egoism within ourselves and bring it to its correct form, which is called “desire” (Hisaron).

The point is that when we are immersed in corporeal desires, we do not influence the spiritual system, we are not within it. But a properly formed desire, directed toward integration into the spiritual system of Adam, toward uniting with its parts, influences it is called “prayer,” i.e., a request to connect and function correctly within the general system of creation.

That is why it is said that everything is attained only through prayer, through the proper formation of one’s desire.
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From the International Kabbalah Convention 5/2/16, Lesson 3

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Question: Is it possible to say that the Creator outside is some kind of logic, laws, and the Creator inside is some kind of feelings? And when these two principles merge, a connection with the Creator occurs?

Answer: Of course, you can say whatever it seems to you right at the moment, but the Creator is the single force that acts in each of us and in all of us together.

There is not much to say about the Creator, because this “substance” includes absolutely everything. And even what I am saying to you now, and what you are hearing and thinking, comes from this force of nature.

Except it, practically nothing exists. We are within it, we are its parts. We are given a certain blindness, a restriction of our thoughts and feelings, so that we do not feel Him, and can reveal Him from this state. Then we, as it were, begin to exist.

There is me and a vast world. I perceive this entire world as a manifestation of the Creator in relation to me. In this way, I try to attune myself to the perception of this world, i.e., the Creator, this universal, the omnipresent force. By attuning myself in this way, I suddenly begin to feel that I am changing to match this force, the Creator. It is exactly to this state we need to arrive.

The purpose of creation is to achieve similarity to the Creator. When I, despite all the obstacles that He puts between Himself and us, reveal Him as the only One who exists, as filling the entire universe, then in this state I merge with Him. But the oneness of the Creator is not violated by this at the same time.

And the fact that He created such a remarkable quality of our separation from Him is given only so that we could, as if from the outside, as if from a distance, understand Him, feel Him, and reveal Him.
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From Kabbalah Lesson in Russian, 12/1/19

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How can we get out of the egoistic nature and not be merged with the Creator because of the desire to receive?

At the first stage, you examine your states in order to reveal their cause. And gradually, as your Kelim (vessels) grow, you come to an inner sensation that apparently there is someone who governs everything.

You begin to search for the one who turns everything, but He is concealed, and you search for Him from within the desire to receive. This is called “Lo Lishma.” You develop an attitude toward the Creator and begin to realize His importance despite His concealment.

This happens under the influence of the surrounding lights. With them, He seemingly draws you to Himself. And so you advance from double concealment to single concealment.

What is the difference between single concealment and double concealment? It is the fact that you begin to feel the cause of what is happening to you. But you prefer to be with the Creator rather than with the cause because the sensation of the Creator sweetens the suffering in the states that He sends you. In the desire to receive you feel bad, and the sensation of the Creator gives you sweetness. This is still called “Lo Lishma.”

If you develop the greatest Lo Lishma, when in any case you prefer to be in adhesion with Him as with the truth, and despite the unpleasant sensations that may arise in you, this becomes more important than anything, then you reach the greatest Lo Lishma from which one transitions to Lishma.

That is, throughout the entire path you demand Him, seek Him, and try to feel Him; otherwise you feel bad even if in material life everything is fine for you. This search is possible only from the point in the heart because from all other desires, aside from the point in the heart, you will seek the fulfillments of this world. But the point in the heart demands the sensation of the Creator. With this it is filled.

Question: When I reach the greatest Lo Lishma, does it mean that no matter how much evil I feel, I will still cling to Him because He is the truth?

Answer: Both yes and no. You transition to evaluating on different scales and begin to weigh good and bad according to the presence or absence of adhesion with Him. The moment you feel separated from Him already becomes bad for you. The desire to receive loses its value for you because only adhesion with Him becomes important.

Question: But how can He be important to me if I know that it is He who makes me feel bad?

Answer: Come closer and you will see.
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From the Daily Kabbalah Lesson, 1/25/26, Rabash, “What Is, His Guidance Is Concealed and Revealed?”

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Question: The flapping of each goose’s wings creates an updraft that supports the birds flying behind.

If people move toward a goal, let’s say that they understand that they must move together. What are “wingbeats” for people?

Answer: For people, this can exist if they define a single higher goal and understand how to achieve it.

Question: It says here that this updraft from the movement of wings supports the birds flying behind. How do they support them? With what?

Answer: The same applies in battle: those who go in front set an example for those who follow. That is, the wingbeat is the example you show.

Question: When a bird breaks formation, it begins to experience sharp air resistance, which forces it to quickly return to formation and continue flying with less effort.

Suppose people set high goals and can’t endure it, they drop out, leave. How can it be made so that in their mind and heart there is the thought that a lone individual won’t break through, that to do so one must be in this group?

Answer: They must all be preoccupied with one goal. Then some will go in front, stay together, and others will hold on behind them, and in this way they will all reach the goal together.

Question: And those who hold on behind understand that they are weaker, so they hold on to their friends; will they have the thought that “I won’t break through alone”?

Answer: Of course.

Question: That is if the importance of the goal is constantly maintained?

Answer: Yes.

Question: When the leader gets tired, it flies to the back of the flock, and another bird replaces it. In life, leaders—politicians, those who lead people, states—don’t feel responsibility. They leave only at elections. There isn’t such a thing as “I’m tired, I give my place to another.” What must a leader have for this thought to arise?

Answer: The importance of the goal of the entire flock.

Comment: I see, the importance of the goal is the peak, the foundation.

My Response: Yes. He must understand that he is responsible for ensuring that the flock continues the path and reaches the goal.

Comment: Even if he won’t be there, even if he…

My Response: That doesn’t matter.

Comment: Meaning his thoughts are not about himself at all, but about the flock.

My Response: Yes.

Comment: That is the most important thing! We seem to have had such an example. Begin left that way, on his own. He suddenly stood up in the middle of a meeting and said, “I’m tired.”

My Response: Yes. That was a great decision.

Comment: And then he sat quietly for ten years, gave almost no interviews. And that’s how he departed.
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From KabTV’s “News with Dr. Michael Laitman,” 1/5/26

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